feat(sink): support delta lake checkpoint decouple

[xxhZs]

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Borrowing iceberg related logic to implement delta lake checkpoint decouple
#16546

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we can use it like :
create sink xxx with(commit_checkpoint_interval = 10);
then, we will synchronize downstream every ten barriers

[wenym1]

LGTM